Healthy Magnet Theory of Romantic Attraction
It is as hard to pull two complimentary poled magnets apart as it is to push two uncomplimentary poled magnets together. The same is true for a healthy viable romantic relationship. Healthy relationships have a natural sustainable physical magnetic connection, unhealthy ones don't. Girls, being more feeling driven than men on average, are more prone to stay with guys (they love) that do pretty horrible stuff to them and will be unmoved by pretty much anything a guy they like less might try to do for them to win them over. So, you can see how inefficient non-reciprocal love scenarios can be (for one or both parties involved and consequently for society), and why it's a waste for anyone to be in them (other than maybe as a what-not-to-do learning experience if you are a learn-the-hard-way type). The first mistake people make is not respecting/valuing physical chemistry as much as they respect mental chemistry. Most people live their lives more mentally than physically, and as a r...